Help, it seems my 35 year old wife is in MLC #13

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I talked to W the other day when I picked up the kids and she said that she didn't get the job she was going for a second interview for. I had to run to go visit my grandmother for her birthday so I didn't get to talk to her any more about it.

Interestingly, when the the kids were getting ready to go she said to them "Call Me" in a kind of lonely, depressed, sad kind of voice. She then told me to say hello to my grand parents.

Then today my kids were out with my mother and S9 tells her that he feels bad for W and doesn't think she is going to have a good Christmas. He then asked my mother if he could borrow $20 from her to but W a Christmas present.

W must be really showing stress/depression when she is not around me because S9 is not very intuitive in that way.

I feel for W and I want to reach out to her even though I know I shouldn't. On the other hand I know I keep saving her rather than allowing her to find her way through this. I feel that I keep taking away her problems and allow her to continue in this life unscathed.

At this point, I think she is seeing that the grass on the other side is dead but hasn't figured out why. I am not really sure how to proceed.