They do get sick alot. It's that mind/body connection. You know, screwed up mind, screwed up body - garbage in, garbage out.
When my H first went to his L, he claims he said "How can I make this the least hurtful for my W?" He told him we'd been separated for the required year and he wanted to get a D as quickly and smoothly as possible.
The L charged him $1,000 for everything (thinking, I'm sure, this was a simple case).
Well........... when my L called his L saying I had retained him and it is not separation but abandonment and what was that other charge? Oh yes, ADULTERY, I can assure you his L freaked!
Of course this is all just speculation.
Hang in there!
Me 56 H 47 Married 21 years No children Bomb & moved out 4/07 "My feelings have changed" & "I want to live by myself". Ow Bomb 8/07 H filed 6/08 D final 2/05/10
