Garius, You asked her three weeks ago what her expectations are for the R, and you haven't heard back. I wonder if she knows how important this is to you. You need to follow-up and remind her that you're waiting for an answer.
If she doesn't respond again, I wouldn't ask again for at least a month.
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CL 53 W 54 M 20 yrs. 03'-09' Separation + Old Patterns + GAL 10-14' Piecing
"The Master allows things to happen. She shapes events as they come."