Thanks , you are right I will shut up and sit back. I was having a moment. Maybe I didn't post it properly she said she was waffling I took it to mean based on the conversation that she wasn't as sure about leaving as she was before. My problem was that I didn't ask what exactly that meant to her. And by the responses here that was probably a good thing. I guess I have to leave it up to her to tell me on her own and be available to listen. One of my concerns was that by saying no pressure to her was that is was giving her permission to remain in limbo and continue on.
That said sofaraway, after reading some of my posts, I have been over thinking things. I guess I was ready to be on my own and accept what was happening, and now I am getting results I wasn't expecting after all this time. The over thinking part was what caused me to not feel good about the last phone call I guess because I'm trying to give the perfect answer. I guess what I have been doing so far has been working so I must do more of the same and not over think it.
Trapt my brother from a different mother LOL
And yes I have started reading the book just on the first chapter
Cheers Jeff
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