Do you have an attorney? You need protection quick. When the WAS start doing funny things with the money it's time to get serious.
You say you feel like dropping the rope. In my humble opinion, I think it's high time. Don't worry about what you said today. All DBing aside, he needed to see your reaction.
Take a strong stand now. Get a L, work on your finances, and go completely dark on your H.
He needs to start feeling some consequences to his horrific choices!
Me 56 H 47 Married 21 years No children Bomb & moved out 4/07 "My feelings have changed" & "I want to live by myself". Ow Bomb 8/07 H filed 6/08 D final 2/05/10