Thanks the hard part is keeping my expectations in check. I just got my mind around the fact that she was moving out and that we were signing papers then all of this happens. I am willing to be patient.
Earlier she called me and told me that she was waffling she didn't know if it was fair if she moved out and then call me when or if she is ready. I told her that we don't have to rush to sign or do anything and that there is no pressure. I said that if she is putting pressure on herself then she may not think clearly and she still needs to come up with the answer herself. My mind was racing trying to come up with the right answer. I guess I don't want to push her so I am going to give her space. I told her that if she wants to chat let me know. She was at work so I didn't think it best to pursue the conversation.
I changed topics asking her how the rest of her day went we joked a little and ended the converstation.
After I hung up I wished I had asked her exactly what she meant by waffling.
Later I called her to tell her that my c-phone was not working and was going to give her another number incase she had to get a hold of me , she replied I won't need to get a hold of you tonight. I was also tempted to ask her what she meant about waffling, but based on her response I got cold feet and said the call wasn't important I'll talk to yo later.
I need feedback as to how I handled the sitch I must remember PATIENCE this is a marathon and that even if I screwed up there is another day.
This frigging game is exhausting!!!
Jeff
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June 08 I don't want to be married it's not you it's me
