IRMAT, You need to do a search on Jack and Three Beans. He wrote an excellent thread on the walkaways. He even went as far as to state the he was one in his first marriage. Walkaways, walk and never look back, they do not reconsider their actions. It's over, kaput, towel tossed in.
Mlc is about emotions. People are driven by those emotions and yes, some of them remain in contact throughout the crisis. Others display a lot of anger, replay, etc. and when the fog lifts a bit, start contacting the family again. I suspect your h is talking about visiting, but the proof will be in the pudding. On the date of the visit, he may very well come up with an excuse not to visit. You'll have to wait and see on that one. Oh, by the way, they do like to share some info w/us every now and then. They tend to get loose lips at times.
No matter what type of crisis he's in, keep the faith and dig deeper for more patience.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
