aliens undercover: married to the pod

[BeingMe]

D12 attends the school there. She would probably be treated more compassionately at a public school.

This might be your best option. Not that there isn't meanness and such in public schools, but you, as a taxpayer, would have more say as to how it should be dealt with. Maybe, all ties should be cut from your previous life (esp. that with your parish) before you can heal and get on with your life? Just a thought.

Just know (and I speak from experience) you only have a small window of opportunity for your D12 to see you standing up for her and saying, "no, you will not do this to mine." (It would be better if your H did it, but you doing it is also something that will strengthen her esteem.) They remember these things. I have four, and you will be astonished at what they remember and what they conveniently forget.

Take care, and give it a lot of thought.