God grant me the patience and the strength...9

[theotherhalf]

"I told him I am done. Get your damb divorce. Do not call me. Do not come here anymore. There is no more "friendship". It is over. Get it done."

You actually said these things without yelling?

Yes I did say these things mwg without yelling. Some of it was said with tears. If I raise my voice to H he is imediately on the defense, especially drinking and in his state of mind and where he was headed. I wanted him to hear me. Yelling wouldn't have worked.

No MWG I don't have to attend any classes. I am angry for sure. But not in a damaging way or to the extent that it is overboard. More like "damb you, why do you keep doing this". No rage.