We are going to get together later this week to start discussing how we are going to manage our finances for 2009.
I am current still living in our home while W is living in an apartment a few miles away. I don't want to keep the house (too many ghosts and I can't afford it on a single income)...so I guess we will have to sell it and divide the equity.
I suppose we will have to get some sort of QDRO on our retirement accounts to fairly divide those up 50/50.
I am going to ask her to sell the new BMW we purchased last year and have already paid off.
Our savings accounts we can split straight away.
Although we have never discussed it, I would almost gurantee that she is/has been having an affair during this entire time. It has slowly been dawning on me that this is something that I will never be able to forget.
She has not shown any interest at all in any sort of reconciliation. This is the first Christmas I won't be attending with her family in over a decade.
What a crappy year this has been!!!
H - 39 W - 38 M - 10 years, Dated 1 LYBNILWY - 5/17/2008 Moved out - 5/18/08 no kids - 2 cats
