My H initiated the contact. It was little by little. He would call every once and a while over stupid things. Then he would stop by without any notice. I left the ball in his court.
I know what you mean about them throwing it all away. I told my H the same thing. We worked together all those years to get to a certain point and in 2 years time he put so much debt on us it was horrible. I let him dig himself out of that one too. I was bearly hanging on financially and I wasn't going to let him take me down too.
Let all of this fall on his shoulders and let him decide what to do about the houses.
