Wow, CW, that is a absolutely nuts. And no need to beat yourself up about it--you asked directly, he lied. Who buys a house behind someone's back??!!?

He is obviously a real piece of work. What he did has NO reflection on you and makes a HUGE statement about how he is as a person.

So, what are you doing to take care of you? What have you been up to all this time off the board?

Me-43
H-46
M 12 yrs 7/09
T 15
2 grown kids
bomb 7/05/07
H moved out 8/04/07
11/22/09 told him I quit;let's get ball rolling
Mid Dec- he isn't sure he wants D
End 2/2010-Starting to consider piecing