When she says those things, just validate what she is saying without agreeing with her. If she says "I don't have 'those' feelings for you" just respond "I understand you don't have 'those' feelings for me right now". You're showing her you understand her position but you're not agreeing with her. It shows her you're listening and even if you don't agree, it shows you care about what she's saying.
Hoping she will wake up is what we all want here, but most times it's not an aha moment. It's more of a slow realization, either steady or in fits and starts.
Gotta go. I'll check in later.
Hope4us
Me - 49, W 49 S22 & S18 Dday 9/4/07 W claims NC 4/7/08 8/29/09 - Divorce Busted. Lots to work through, but we're going to make it.
