Thank you for stopping by and for your help. What worked before was me initiating the meeting and then letting him set the time and place so I sent a message basically saying what Lisa and Samina suggested last (Sunday) night and I have yet to hear back.
Al - I haven't heard yet from him about what happened with the agents, I suppose that is what this meeting will be about. I am trying not to be controlling because I know that one of the estate agents he asked does not deal in lettings so he only would have got one point of view on that. I'm not pre-empting though and trusting that he will have got useful info (and if it sounds dodgy then I will check it out myself).
Jeff - thank you for stopping by, your encouragement means loads!
Well, one weird thing to note was that I had said to h just to check the cat hadn't gone to the toilet before the agents came and he changed the whole litter tray. That was a big thing he made a fuss of before he left that 'it was disgusting and that was my job' - even though he adored the cat more than me at that stage. An incidental, but I just noticed that...
