She was very involved emotionally. They would talk and text for hours in the middle of the night. I'm not clear on the physical, but I guess it doesn't really matter. She was really in love with me at one point; we are HS sweethearts, we've known each other since we were 13, and we were virgins when we got married. We were always attached at the hip. So I don't know if she's having second thoughts, or just having a hard time saying all of that is over. I hope and pray that she will wake up, because I really do still love her and I want to save my marriage. Do you even respond when she says these things? I try to convince her that these feelings will pass, but that doesn't work (still stuck doing more of the same, I guess). She says that there's nothing I'm going to say that she hasn't already thought of. I just don't want to push her further away...
