Hmmm I will tell you what I am thinking. I am a father and my kids come first. I am very thankful to be a man that was able to keep my kids. They have been my world since she left and I focus on them and making sure they feel loved. I am not interested in anyone owing me anything. I don't want to do anything that will hurt them so I do not fight with my wife. What is the point? She was the best mom in the world up to the day she left. I think she deserves some credit for that and me doing any of the things you said would only hurt my kids. I understand where you are coming from but I am a pretty strong person, I am not worried about me and I am taking care of my boys. I am just trying to figure out what she is thinking. That is what I am looking for.

As for pride.... I hear it comes before a fall...