Partner left after 9 years - now what?

[MsMelancoly]

Hey Ali - just dropping by

Intersting convo about domineering mothers - my H's mom too!!

Question for both of you. Do you think you got too close to your H or BF, know them too well, so it was uncomfortable for them, so they had to pull away?? That is my H I believe. My H's life has never been that great - w/me I think it was for awhile & he didn't know what to do - new territory & all, so he returned to what he was comfortable with, being poor & struggling (both inside & out).

Any thoughts????