You know Rob, its really disgusting the way she talks to you.
Even if she had a point (about finacnes/realtors/past - not sure what her point is, but anyway).. it doesnt excuse her tone. Its disgraful. She shared 12 years with you (?), M you and has a daughter with you, she needs to grow up and stop projecting her anger onto you. And so what if her credit/your finances are f*cked? She should practice forgivenes.. AND.. you were in the M together, this isnt the 1950's.. she could have sat and asked you about your finances at any point, and before she had the A and decided to leave, she could have taken some responsibility for it all. Makes me so angry !!!! I would never blame my ex, I would blame muself for not keeping in the loop about what our money sitch was.
I cant believe how ungracious and bitter she is. Its karma Rob and karma will come back to bite her on the *rse, I am telling you. Althought, she may be one of those woman who goes around bad mouthing men for the rest of her life and says things like "huh.. thats like my exH...." and keeps giving energy to what yuo USED to be like, your old M and the old you.. and for waht?
Ohhhh.. it makes me so mad, I could slap her !!!
And I'm telling you.. I have no idea why you havent been snapped up by someone else yet, you are one good looking fella...! I know, you are taking it slow...
Al x
Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08 Reconciled 05/09 now married! my thread