She's gone from being adamant about wanting a D about 2 months ago, to saying she just wants a legal sep for now. She says she doesn't see a future for us, so I don't understand why she doesn't just file for a D. Yes, she was involved with another man (at the very least emotionally)(she says they were just very good friends, in fact she says he was her 'refuge' at times). Any books other than DR & DB you'd recommend for me? She really does love me underneath all of this, so I want to do all that I can to fight for my relationship.