Detach>Worse>Weird>Better ???

[Sophie]

Do you think some WAS are cowardly in a way...that they try to get YOU to do the dirty work?

My H thought I would be so IRATE when I found out about OW, that I would kick him out and divorce him as fast as possible.

I didn't. I recognized my role in leading him to that 'line' apologized and listened to his complaints, desires etc. for over a year.

My H thought I would be so mad when he moved out that I would divorce him and move back home to CA. H said he wasn't going to let the threat of me taking the kids to CA stop him from walking out.

I didn't do any of that....I started reading these boards and the other website like this.

I think my H thought I would be so mad when I got D papers that I would be the one to turn it around and sue him back.

I see these buttons he tries to push, but I don't react the way he thinks I will.

I think H wants me to divorce him...and he'll take whatever is handed to him.

Coward.