(((Michelle))) just getting caught up. Although I don't post much anymore, I still keep an eye out ;\)

I am sorry your H is being a pain. I thought about D too, and don't want to be the one to file. Of course, I still want to work things out, but that is neither here nor there. A friend of mine said what difference does it make? Is a divorce going to make you feel any different?

For me, it won't. But you have to ask yourself the same question. If the D will bring you closure, and that is what you are seeking, then you have a choice to make. If it is not going to make you feel any different, let your H do it.

But also remember, if you can still get angry with him...there is still something there and you might want to address that before making any final decisions.

BTW, there are some idiot parents out there who just dont give a crap about their kids...lol! Remember to always smile when you are telling them to act like parents...

Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..