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The L will be highly irritated and will ask for more money. I have a suspicion that's what happened to my H and why I haven't heard from him - he can't afford to retain him so he's stuck.


I hope you are right about this for my sitch also!! It would also be wonderful to have a L tell my H what's-what...and what the consequences of his decisions will very likely be!!

I think all time spent between H and his L so far has been hourly...and not much time, I figure.

I hope you are right that lawyers raise their fees when they find out it will be more of a battle.

The papers I was served with were simply stating we've been apart for so long, let's just make it legal!! BS!!!


I'm going running...3.5 miles today.


Sophie

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Me-50
H-38
Married 15 years 8/7/08
D8
S10
S13
H affair 11/04-7/04 maybe longer
H moved out 4/06

7/30/08- present: Reconnecting w/kids,friendly
10/30/08 H signed D papers
11/10/08 D papers filed
11/13/08 D papers served at home