He did text me and said "I'm very upset about what happened this weekend, I'll talk to you later." So that's all for now I guess.
Ok, see? He did contact you. BUT just leave it at that. Do not respond back or contact him. He needs to know what he did to you was not ok. He still needs some cooling off time. You need to find away to live without him. I sometimes feel like he throws a crumb your way and you grab it right away begging for more. I am not trying to hurt your feelings, just trying to show you what I see. You are not yet detached enough from him. You are still letting him dictate your days. Just live for Dar and your daughter!