Just a quick observation: you have always blown off her not doing what you need as "just how she is". It apparently bothers you, whether it be a simple thank you or introducing you as her husband. She doesn't have a clue that those things bother you and won't unless you say something. You don't want to have put in all this time and effort and have it fall apart because you didn't say something do you?
You could bring it up calmly by saying that you enjoyed the party the other night but wondered why she didn't introduce you as her husband. It upset you and you would appreciate her not doing that in the future.
Just food for thought.
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory
