Well, got my application actually submitted. Now I have to petition to get the $250 late fee back.......the damn exam already costs $529 plus $119 to laptop instead of handwrite....
But the immediate concern of getting myself properly registered is done. So that's good at least.
And I finally got Vista to quit losing my printer drivers. So my printer is working too. Yay.
I don't wanna go to work lol. I could spend the whole day sorting this crap out. Too much to do!
Michelle - Proud DR Rockette S: 28JUL07, D'd: 29OCT09 http://tinyurl.com/27j9qo2
$250 late fee?! Yikes!! I hope you are able to somehow get it back, but at least the registration issue has been resolved as it was the most important.
Hope you are able to grab a moment to relax before going to work!
(((((Michelle)))))
Getting over a painful experience is much like crossing monkey bars. You have to let go at some point in order to move forward. ~ Joseph Campbell
Hi Michelle, I haven't read all your threads, but I want you to know I feel your pain. I am in a similiar sitch (although you are a couple rounds ahead of me). My H's 60 days to serve me ended this week. I thought I was moving foward to somewhere - but am still in limboland.
As Ali said maybe you are too detached. I think I am. Although it has been good for me & saved my sanity.
Does fear & guilt control your H? Fear has been in the drivers seat since my H left. It is probably paralyzing his actions towards me. He told me he was afraid of me & afraid that I was mad at him. (Read my last thread if you want to know more). I told him I was not & understand his actions.
I too am in the what now stage????
PS. DBcoach Jody's advise on $$ owed, is not sluff off & say it doesn't matter. Rather to offer a payment plan & have him take responsiblity.
Me39, XH45 Kids 3 dogs, 2 cats Divorced 6/4/09 Tricky thing is not how you live, but how you live with yourself. (POTC)
How frustrating about your bar application. I'm glad you got it sorted out, though. What a pain to have another thing to deal with though!
I was thinking about H not replying to your texts, and wondering about ways to get around that..... do you think a call would work at all instead of IM or texting? I always find my H better on the phone than on text or e-mail but feel a bit nervous contacting by phone for some reason.....
Anyway, just a thought. I also wondered about being friends and I know you made an effor to speak to him after he sent the apology letter. Again, I wondered whether, if you want to be friends, you could tell him you'd like it if you were....he may need a little encouragement (which you may or may not want to give!)
As usual you sound amazing and totally on top of everything. Such an inspiration Michelle!
99% of the time he won't pick up when I call. So that's not really any better.
At this point I'm not even sure I want to be friends. While a lot of the initial trauma and drama is a year in the past, there was a bunch more crap that went down this summer. I AM mad at him. I need someone I can trust and depend on, and he has gone out of his way to show me he isn't that for me over the last two years. I want it all - someone who will love me and only me, who will be my friend and confidant. *sighs* Oh well.
He finally texted me back today. Wants to meet up next week and wants me to come to him. I again said I have Monday/Tuesday off. No response to that.
Making dinner. Will check on you all later.
((((everyone))))
MsMelancoly - thanks for dropping by. I will try and check out your thread later.
Michelle - Proud DR Rockette S: 28JUL07, D'd: 29OCT09 http://tinyurl.com/27j9qo2
So H texted me back to say that we should try for Tuesday.
Today is actually the start of my weekend.
Worked all the "real weekend". Work was very busy.
I got complained about yesterday. One of the managers came to ask if I was in portraits. I said yes, let me guess, the obnoxious people complained. She was like yeah, so don't be surprised if the store manager calls you into her office. I was just like okay, whatever. These people were blocking the stockroom doors, literally taking up the whole hallway. Now seriously, who plops their kids down in front of giant swinging doors to get run over???????? Gimme a break. And don't look so surprised when I ask you to move. And definitely don't get attitude with me when I tell you that you have to move. I don't have time to deal with stupid people when I've got two people on hold on the phones and a line of 15 customers and need to run in the back to check for an item.
Michelle - Proud DR Rockette S: 28JUL07, D'd: 29OCT09 http://tinyurl.com/27j9qo2
One of the managers came to ask if I was in portraits. I said yes, let me guess, the obnoxious people complained. She was like yeah, so don't be surprised if the store manager calls you into her office. I was just like okay, whatever. These people were blocking the stockroom doors, literally taking up the whole hallway. Now seriously, who plops their kids down in front of giant swinging doors to get run over???????? Gimme a break. And don't look so surprised when I ask you to move. And definitely don't get attitude with me when I tell you that you have to move. I don't have time to deal with stupid people when I've got two people on hold on the phones and a line of 15 customers and need to run in the back to check for an item.