No, My W is not with someone else - at least I don't think so, and nothing causes me to be suspicious, but I guess you never know...
And we've been intimate only once in 7 months - that's why my drive is in overdrive right now
Anyway, you just need to reflect on what worked when things went well in your R before and stay away from the things that you did to cause problems. Then, relax - don't make him feel any pressure and don't get desperate to have every day a honeymoon. Sometimes it helps to just be grateful for the small things - let the big things work themselves out in their own time.
Hey trek - I'm a Tennessean (middle) - where 'ya goin? Maybe we can hook up briefly to swap DB war stories!