Is it just me or does anyone else feel more threatened when they don't hear from their MLCer than they do when letters and horrible conversations abound?

On 11th November my H gave me 24hrs to agree to his latest strategy. I complied with that (and agreed) and I have heard absolutely nothing since and neither has my L despite asking for more info about what is going on.

Does this mean he is finally entering withdrawal (if so I am happy!) or does it just mean he is continuing to be manipulative b**t**d? (Or both )


Me 43
XH 45
M 2.7.88
Divorce 7.10.09
Kids D20,S17 & D15