No, we have not been intimate. We had our first intimate kiss two days ago. First in seven months. As for going slowly, I am going to start moving stuff week after next. The week after that we are going to TN to visit my brother and SIL.

We are still at the eggshell stage. Watching everything we say, studying every word that comes out of each other's mouths, etc. He was kinda distant at lunch today, but I have finally decided that that is because he isn't really sure if we are going to sleep in the same bed tonight. It hasn't been addressed yet but that is going to be the first order of business when I get there.

You have to understand that as far as either of us was concerned, I was leaving the state to relocate and he had filed for divorce up until last Monday...four days ago. So we are still at the very, very beginning.

As for your sitch, I would probably go ahead and move. The day to day has to start sometime, right?

trek