God grant me the patience and the strength...9

[glamgirl]

Ah TOH you will never get there at the rate you are going, but I guess you already know that. Go back at read BWorl's post that is perfect for you.

If what is not working for you, don't keep doing the same things and quit thinking that your h is on his way home soon. It could be years before he is finally out of the tunnel, but one thing is for sure the more you keep doing what you are doing the longer it's going to take for your h to come out.

Be safe and put your focus where it needs to be!