I'm glad you think I've been doing things right. I for sure didn't think so...I finally resorted to using the Last Last Resort a week and half ago! I was so scared! But it worked and that was totally surprising.

Is your W with someone else? It's good you guys are in the same house...then she can see your changes on a daily basis. Did you read the guy's story in Divorce Remedy? It may be similar to your sitch and could give you some ideas on what to do. I read that story over and over when I got stuck...it helped me get my perspective back when things got really dark.

Thanks for your help!