Well, my practical self would say move in. We have a lot riding on moving into together financially as for us being together I miss being with him every day. I guess I'm just scared that once I'm there it will go back to what we had and I don't want that. I just don't know what kind of person he's become now...not on a day to day basis and that is scary!
Are you not intimate with your husband? Throughout our separation we maintained occassional intimacy and we slept together just Wednesday night so that is not a problem for us. It will be the adjustment of schedules for us and the kids.
What do you mean by slow moving in? How many weeks till the day? And are you going to sleepover more often until that point? Have you guys talked about what you'd like to expect or what the goals/plan is?
As you can see, I hate the unknown...I need a plan!
