I know how you feel....believe me, alot of things that my W does gets on my nerves...but....it does us no good to dwell on it. It's nice to vent here though....we have no choice but to let it go. In my case anyway, the more things she does that get on my nerves, the more I realize that I need to continue on the path of moving on. I try to take the high road (usually i just shrug it off)....unless her actions are really affecting my daughter, I let it slide.