Quote: I'm just scared that if I don't move in right away some OW will influence him to get away from me again or that his continued singlehood will continue to be attractive more so than our marriage
While I haven't had a chance to read up on your sitch, my gut reaction to this comment is this: Aren't you risking that no matter what? What you are going to have to deal with (believe me, I am in the same "about to move home" position as you) is the issue of trust. Moving home is for some a leap of faith. Personally, I am taking a couple of weeks to move home. There is a definate date for moving, but I am gradually spending more and more time with H and am spending the night with him tonight. Not sure about the sleeping arrangements yet though.
What does your gut tell you? Not the panic filled part, but the practical, sensible part?
