After a year of being separated, and 4 months of being on the very brink of divorce, my H and I have decided to commit to being married. My question: Should we move in together right now or wait until we go to a marriage enrichment class (13 wks), write down goals, have a plan for putting together our marriage? What should I do?
I'm currently living 45 minutes from him. I though of getting an apartment close to him so our kids could go to the same school and then we could work on us gradually. I'm just scared that if I don't move in right away some OW will influence him to get away from me again or that his continued singlehood will continue to be attractive more so than our marriage. I'm confused as to what to do. Any advice out there?
