Hi SF, Glad you counterclaimed. When was the last time you saw your H or spoke to him? It is sad all these years and poof they are gone. My H is so much like a stranger these days. But from what they say in the DB, DR books and on this board, this is normal behavior when they are in the A.
undates... Well my D28 calls me yesterday and said she went to "my space" and found OW's daughters website and sent her an e-mail. She has been very destroyed by her Dad's actions and after seeing her Dad at Thanksgiving, she feels he is going to get sick and have a heartache or something because of this A and all the stress it has caused. She wrote the daughter that her mother was in A with her father and that it has been going on since summer. She said that her and her sister would never accept OW and pretty much that she was a homewrecker. OW daughter had just gotten married in October so my D28 says how would you feel if your husband was cheating on you? It is not a good feeling.
So I don't know when this will "hit the fan" but will have to deal with it. I have exposed this A to my family and SIL but this will finally expose it to OW's side. I am sure she will NOT be happy. oh well
Me 53 H 50 D16, D29 M 22 years bomb 7/08 INH - alien pod replaces H 8/08 - OW (direct report), I work there also bomb II - H moves 10/1 expose ow 10/22 D to be final 9-09
