Hey man, I know you are anxious for the talk....Just be prepared for nothing to happen with it. Although they tend to seem like they are on the edge, it isn't always the case, just part of their own roller coaster.
Just be sure to keep your expectations in check. the positive AND the negative ones. Don't expect anything at all, and keep your mind free and clear. Don't let it become a trap for you, one where she is searching for buttons to push....then or in the future. One of the things I have noticed is that: My W tends to take things from her little meltdowns to use as buttons to push on me. Be positive and upbeat, be loving yet keep your shields up a little. Don't let her suck you down a dead end road.
It's times like those talks that they seem to gain strength if things go astray.....Let her talk and just validate her feelings....don't try to fix her or this.....Cos it ain't gonna happen today..
Are you willing to give up two years of your marriage to gain a lifetime of being married? I.E. Yes....patience is key my friend.........
