Well interesting chain of events....Friday night, we got home from going out (I play in a band) and when we got to the house she hopped in the bed, she had drank that night and said that she wasn't drunk, she didn't act like it either, but she said that she could tell she had drank. but anyway, I went to go ahead and leave to go back to my friends house I am staying at and she acted disappointed a little bit, and was like "Shut up and get int the bed." So I eneded up staying. I hopped in the bed and she immediately snuggled up with me, (which is odd to begin with cause she never has been a cuddler) Then she started kissing on me and we ended up having sex. It was great, and she agreed. The next morning I went back to my friends house and I eneded up later texting her and said WTF was that about and I hope that it wasn't anything she woke up regretting or thinking to herself why did I do that for? And she replied: "It was about us both wanting sex with each other and it was Great!"
We are still the same after all this. I mean this hasn't fixed everything and we are still not kissing or hugging or making any contact, not saying "I love you." I guess we have been getting along the same.
So man, did I make the wrong move, should I have stopped this from happening or should I just consider this done, and let it all go how it's going? Count this as a small baby step maybe on the positive side and keep rolling with it? Of course I am trying to watch her and read into every thing, trying not to read too much and see normal things as "bad" things. But I am also hoping too that this didn't negatively impact us for the bad. Any thoughts , advice, welcome, thanks!
Last edited by Trippingbilly; 12/15/0802:35 PM.
ME-32 W-26 S 5 D-6 Bomb(S) Dropped 3/20/08, 7/20/08, 10/11/08 (I left, she asked me to come back) and most recently 11/16/08. JEESH!