One more question. I used to go up to Maine and stay with him in his hotel (where all the out-of-town musicians stay for the orchestra rehearsals and concerts) for a little romantic getaway. Is it too loaded for me to even think about revisiting a place we shared that way? Do you think he will be afraid I want to sleep over? I think if I say something like "during the day" or "for lunch" it should make it clear that I am not expecting a sleepover but I just want to make sure... that I am not ... being too pursuing???
