((((Future Girl))))

I like the idea of having a conversation with H, but I'd probably temper some of the things you might say to him......

"H I love you, have always loved you, and a small part of me will probably always love you. But I want to be in a relationship with someone who wants to share my life. I get the impression think that we want different things at this stage in our lives. , and I understand that you are busy and are enjoying being single, and I support you in that decision. But it's not what I'm looking for. And sSeeing each other every few weeks isn't helping me is difficult for me- I'd like to see more of you and spend more time together so we can see where this might go.

I cant imagine being divorced from you, I cant imagine it being the end of us. But I'll happy to sign the divorce papers if that's what you want. If you decide you want to have another go at having a real relationship with me where we share the good and bad times then call me. I want you to be happy, but I also need to look after myself, and I think its time for me to move on"

I also wonder about having the conversation in a more open-ended way where you try and find out what he wants and where he sees things going. That way you can get an insight into what's holding him back (because at this stage I'm not sure if he's actually said that he wants to be single, or try the single life, or if he'd like more but is scared.....).

I'm sorry I missed you earlier- I had to log off to do some work- so annoying!!

L. xx