Hopeful Husband,

There are many similarities in your sitch and the way my sitch started. Here is a link to my first thread:
Wife of 26 Years Believes God Is Releasing Her

and my last:
Walkin' Towards The Blessing!

There are some differences:

  • You state "I understand the journey that lies ahead. I am scared but prepared" I didn't have a clue and was totally UN-prepared
  • There was never an OM
  • Neither of us left the house
  • We were married 26 years


I think you might gain by reading our journey. I would submit that you don't understand what lies ahead...particularly if you take your eyes off of your W and focus on God. He will direct your path....AND take care of your W. The day after the bomb a friend of mine told me "Enjoy this time! God is doing a work in you!" I almost punched him out....but, I get it now...finally! You sound like you are starting off in a FAR better place than I did but I want you to know that the destination is worth the journey! I will pray for you, your W, and your friends!


Praising God Daily, Remaining "FaithfulH"
Me: 62
W: 62
D:33 S:30 & 31
Married: 40 Years
BD: Sep 2006
Piecing: May 2007
2nd BD: May 2014
Working On It: Today