We all came piling over to hear the K-K-K-razy! idea and.. its not so crazy. I like it, although....to counter that, your friend said, imagine if it were me, you would go on a 2 hour (4 hour roundtrip?) journey to meet me.. BUT...would you go on a 4 hour round trip *just* to meet your exBF for lunch???? And what would said exBF think of that gargantuan effort, just to meet for lunch?
I guess I feel that that is really going out of your way to see him and sends him a clear message you ARE very keen to see him. It might freak him out? Or just make him curious??
BUT.. I also think, you two have been getting on very well lately and this is a potent 2 weeks right now..and what have you got to lose? Nothing, the worst he could do is say no and I reckon he would either say yes, or just say sorry he is mega busy doing stuff (whatever it is he is doing in Maine... music stuff? In which case, he could be genuinely busy).
Miss you on my thread! You busy girl... Al xxx
Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08 Reconciled 05/09 now married! my thread
