Yeah, the thing is he thought he had it all figured out to do it in his time, at his convenience. Now he is living with his parents, for the first time has a lot of credit card debt (talk about a change of personality - he hates credit cards) and has no set plans.
I on the other hand have already taken steps to get the utilities changed into my name. I will apply for a mortgage for the house today. Oh yeah, I also signed up for a membership to match.com. I'm not in any hurry to find someone, but I think for my sanity I will start dating.
I can budget and be very careful with my money. He said he will help if I get in a tight spot - although he would be the last one I would want to call. I can do this on my own and I will.
He is on his own!
Will he come back? Will he get a clue? Right now I don't really care about that. I am focused on me. He pulled the trigger by going to see a lawyer.
Time to focus on me and take care of me and make me happy. That starts today, right now, this very minute.
Me 45, H 46, S 23, M 26, Together 30, Bomb 6-2-08, S 6-19-08; H left 12-29-08. H home 12-09, Still MLC in 2012! Me- I have my big girl panties on. Bring it.
