Naej - Thanks for post and the line re any other hobbies than raising my elbow, cracked me up !!!
I'm an open and honest person and yeah, your not totally wrong. Thing is, it's like I've been in a time machine and gone back 15 years to being aingle and living at home. What else do you do on a Saturday night ?
The boys are 2 and 6 and they won't hear that dads a player as I'm not really. I just so happen to have been getting a fair bit of attention of late and a couple that seem real interested. And your right, and Mike has said it to, us DB'd men (and probably the girls too), are giving of something to attract others as I've generally not really put in any effort. Certainly no made first moves.
Jan 09 is slow down time, got a busy last couple of weeks planned now. I do see it that I am only doing what other single people are and nothing wrong.