Hi artteach,
I was have been thinking of you lately. My hubby stopped contacting the OW and I am still going crazy so I am not sure how to even understand what you are feeling right now.
I understand about the snooping. I have finally started ignoring things I do not want to find out for and started getting my finances in order. My goal right now is to put myself in a financial position that will allow me to kick him out if there is ever any other incidents.
I have become so emotionally detached that I am not longer DBing. I am just living my life and if he wants to try, it is his goal, not mine. I am not happy and am not going to beg him to stay with me or love me.

How are your kids doing?


M:38
H:42
T:20 M:19
D:18 S:17
MLC: Sometime in 2007
OW Bomb 1: 12/28/07
OW Online relationship 2: Spring 2009
Told him I wanted D: May 10, 2009
D final: 07/09/11