If she thinks she's gonna' still get the same in C-S from me under that unpalatable scenario, she's got another thing coming. I'd almost pay to specifically NOT have MIL anywhere in the picture. Evil. Just evil she is.
But what can I say without coming off the bad guy?
[/quote]Don't let her know about the pay thing. She'd use that to her advantage I'm sure! Witholding financial support for that sounds good to me. I should think both parents should approve of a childcare person, and you shouldn't have to fund someone that's not good for the children. Of course, legally I don't know. Maybe ask your L? I would not get into it at all with your W. Not a word. I'm sure she already knows you feel anyway doesn't she???
And boy you sure kept your birthday quiet!!! Happy Birthday, NC!!! The Disney party sounds like fun; hope you had a good one!!! Karen
