I'm at that point where I really could care less about ow. Really, I have too many other things that consume my mind and of course that means my kids, my job and hopefully my own side business.
Some days are hard but others are easier.
Maybe if you could get yourself some help, TOH, to help you with the fighting instinct that you grew up with and still have. I think that would be a good thing to work on.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19