I am new to your thread - have read a little of your sitch. In my humble opinion you have done the right thing, the only thing left to do.
It's exactly what everyone keeps talking about - drop the rope, let him go, detach, go dark - and when you finally embrace these concepts and take them to heart and make a stand - WOW!
You WILL get stronger everyday.
Your H will do some deep soul searching now. Hopefully he will man-up and realize what he must do if he wants to WIN you back.
Standing Ovation!!
Me 56 H 47 Married 21 years No children Bomb & moved out 4/07 "My feelings have changed" & "I want to live by myself". Ow Bomb 8/07 H filed 6/08 D final 2/05/10
