I can't MWG. I don't know how you do it. As long as there is an OW there can never be a chance for R. So as far as I see it. Getting her out of our lives FOR GOOD is the first and formost.
I know she means nothing to him and that her place is a place for him to escape to, because it is quiet nobody there from 8:30 to after 6PM.
Trust me when I say these ow are just as sick as these men. Even my H admits that she is wacked.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19