Yes I'm trying to delay the D. I never wanted it, still don't believe he really wants it. He's in a very addicted romantic affair and I'm biding my time hoping he will come to his senses.

I was a bit of a doormat for the first year but finally put a stop to that with my counterclaim to his filing. And hell will freeze over before I contact him again.

A Christmas card to the OW's parents house? Hmmmm

Me 56
H 47
Married 21 years
No children
Bomb & moved out 4/07 "My feelings have changed" & "I want to live by myself".
Ow Bomb 8/07
H filed 6/08
D final 2/05/10