Last night H and I attended a Christmas party of one of his business associates. He has become pretty good friends of this man and his wife during our separation. I'll call them John and Jane Doe. I just met them this past summer. They are really nice people. It was after I met them that I found out that H had taken the skank around them. Honestly, I was embarassed when I found out because it made me feel foolish that they had been around the whore also. When I found out, I asked H if Jane was friends with the OW, because if she was, I didn't want to go around them anymore. I did not want to put Jane on the spot of having to "choose" between us. He told me they were not.

After I got to know Jane we discussed the OW. She told me that once she met me, it made her really mad that my H had brought the OW to her house. She told her H that she would not allow my H to bring her around anymore.

Well, last night at the party I was talking to Jane and she told me that the skank had called her H to see if she could get some of his homemade bbq sauce. It made Jane very mad. She told John that she didn't want him having anything to do with the "country gold digging whore". Later Jane told this to my H also. She let Brad know how worthless she thought the whore was. She told him you have a good wife who loves you so much. She is the mother of your children. I would not have put up with half of what she has put up with. He said I know. She gave him several truth darts. He listened and got defensive a couple of times. Jane told my H, I choose Yoyo. Youa are never to bring the gold digger around me anymore. John at one time looked at Jane and told her to stop. Not sure why the whore called John. Maybe it was her way of trying to get on good terms with John and Jane thinking it would help her with my H. All it did was infuriate Jane that the whore was calling her H!

As we were leaving John came up and hugged me and kissed me bye. He also hugged my H. Then he looked at us both and said I love you both, I wish you could work it out. But, if you can't you need to move on and quit treating her like this. By this time I was crying. John kissed me and said I didn't mean to make you cry. My H hugged me and kissed me. He actually told me he loved me. I said, but are you in love with me? He said yes, I love you.

On the way home H wanted me sit right next to him in the SUV. I moved over one time and he told me to come closer to him.

It turned out to be an expensive night. We hit a deer about a half mile from our house. We see deer on our street all the time. It tore up my bumper pretty bad. I'm just glad DD17 didn't hit it in her car. I told her to make sure that she goes very slowly down the street.

So a very interesting night over all...




Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are.
-- Bernice Johnson Reagon